Here are the 10 white lies the psychologist believes parents can use.
- Your teeth will fall out if you don't brush them: This harmless white lie might be worthwhile if it helps kids to keep up good hygiene habits. But there's a fine balance between encouraging them to brush their teeth and traumatising them! So tread carefully.
- Screen time after a certain time is illegal: Screens can be addictive, and screen time should be limited for your child's wellbeing. But this can cause huge rows at home so in this scenario, telling a little white lie is justified.
- Lie about their creations: Creative skills are important for building self-confidence, imagination and self-expression. So no matter how bad their artwork is, celebrate it like they're the next Picasso!
- Unhealthy foods taste bad: If you don’t want your kids to eat sugary treats like cake, you could pretend they taste bad. But you'll only get away with this one for a few years, so make the most of it! Just ensure you never make weight-related comments as these can cause lifelong eating disorders.
- Everyone goes to bed at the same time: Bedtime can be a huge struggle, as every parent knows, and this can cause untold stress when you're exhausted after a long day. So it's OK to tell the kids you're going to bed at the same time. This will hopefully ease their FOMO and mean you get some alone time.
- Peppa is on vacation: This goes back to them not spending too much time glued to a screen, and will encourage them to find other activities that they enjoy.
- The car will only start when all seat belts are buckled: This one needs no explanation.
- You will get your finger permanently stuck up your nose: They all do it, but it's a dirty habit that you want to stamp out quickly. So why not tell this little fib as a deterrent?
- Everything you learn is important: “All of life is a lesson and to promote a love of learning for learning’s sake is extremely beneficial," says the psychologist.
- You can do anything you set your mind to: This statement is not always going to be true, but it is important for kids to hear it to feel empowered and positive about setting goals and intentions.